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Single, never married
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Religious Affiliation / Background:
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Progressive (follow none/almost none of my religion's teachings)
Moderate (follow some of my religion's teachings)
Conservative (follow most of my religion's teaching)
Strict (follow all of my religion's teachings)
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Religious "Attitude"
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Have you previously submitted answers to this survey?
Dating ... please be honest , it's anonymous
If single, what type of situation are you ideally looking for?
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Casual dating with one dating partner at a time, not officially exclusive
Casual dating alternating with multiple dating partners
Long term exclusive relationship
Marriage
Other
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I live alone
I live with 1 roommate
I live with 2 or more roommates
I live with my relationship partner
I live with my parents
I live with other family members
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What is your current living situation?
If you practice a certain faith / religion, are you looking for someone who shares that faith / religion?
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I would prefer it but I'm open to those of different faiths / religions
Undecided
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Daily
Weekly
Weekly and Easter and Christmas
Monthly
Only for Special Occasions
Only on Easter and / or Christmas
Weekly and All Holy Days of Obligation
Never
If you are Catholic do you attend Mass?
Do you want to have children?
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No
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If yes, how many children would you hope for?
Approximately, how many different people would that you say you dated in the last year?
How/where do you meet most of the people you date?
What prompts you to ask someone out?
What signals do you give someone when you’re interested in him/her?
What signals (if any) do you look for before asking someone out?
Do you ask someone you’re interested in out?
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Yes, as soon as I feel like I want to date him/her
No, I wait for him/her to ask me out
First I wait for him/her to ask me out, if that doesn't happen I do the asking
Yes and No depending on the situation
Reasons why you wouldn't ask someone you're interested in out?
Would you date someone that you know as a friend? If not, why wouldn't you date someone you know as a friend? If so, how would you initiate the transition from friend to dating partner? Would you date someone that you work with? If not, why wouldn't you date someone you work with? Have you ever tried online dating? If yes, how long have you been using online dating services? If yes, which online dating services do you use? How often (if ever) do you date people that you meet on these online dating sites? What advantages/disadvantages do you find with online dating? Do you belong to a social / professional networking site (such as Myspace, Facebook, etc.)? If yes, which social / professional sites do you use? How often (if ever) do you date people that you meet on these sites? Would you date someone older than you? Reasons why you would or wouldn't date someone older than you? What age range do you find acceptable for your dating / relationship partners? If you found out after you started dating someone that he/she was above or below your date range (they didn’ t lie, you just assumed they were younger or older), would you continue to date that person? f you're not initially physically attracted to someone who asks you out but who seems nice, would you go out with him/her at least once to see if anything sparks? After a first date in which you liked the person and wanted to go out again, when/how would you let them know you had a good time and would like to go out with them again (for example, text them that info when you got home, call and tell them the next day, email him/her 3 days later? Do you have certain “rules” that you follow when you start dating someone? What are those dating rules, if any? Do you feel like most people play “games” when they’re dating? If someone asked you out that you weren’t interested in, would you? If you would lie, why would you choose this option instead of being straightforward? What are your biggest complaints about people that you date and dating in general? How long do you think you need to date someone before you get to know the “real” person? How many dates do you usually go out with someone (or how long) before you decide that you want to make it an exclusive dating relationship? How many dates do you usually go on with someone before you decide that you want to end it? How do you usually end a dating relationship (have a talk, just stop calling, send a "break up" email, etc)? How would you prefer someone to end a dating relationship with you? Have you ever been in love? How many times have you been in love? When you’ve been in love, how did you know? If you’ve been in love, how long were you dating that person (those people) before you knew you were in love? If you are currently in an exclusive relationship, how long have you been in it? What is the longest exclusive relationship you’ve ever been in? How many exclusive relationships have you had that have lasted over 2 months? Do most of your relationships end on good terms? Why do you think most of your relationships end? Have you ever stayed friends with past relationship partners?
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Undecided
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Undecided
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Yes
No
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Yes
No
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Yes
No
Undecided
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Yes, whether older or younger
Yes, if older, not younger
Yes, if younger, not older
No
Undecided
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No
Undecided
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Yes
No
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Yes
No
Undecided
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Give him/her your info and go out with them anyway
Be honest and say you're not interested
Say no thanks and make an excuse
Say yes but give them phony info so they can't reach you
I've done all of the above at 1 point or another
Other
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It seemed like love, but now I don't think it was
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Some do and some don't
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I have tried, but eventually it didn't work being just friends
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